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Your Soul Purpose is not kindergarten, it’s true mastery. That’s why it’s important to avoid those 3 fatal mistakes. The paradox is that in true mastery the qualities of your childhood are not lost, they are actually fully recovered.
1. Thinking Your Soul Purpose is ‘Bigger’ than it is
In this worldwide time of change, chaos, and global conflict it is easy to follow others, instead of standing in your roots. We love to follow role models. Mostly we believe to be inspired by them, but on a very subtle layer we copy their personality full of achievements and we also tend to follow their lifestyle.
If we dare to live our dreams full of excitement, we can reach far beyond the sky. Our dreams full of excitement do not necessarily need to be what society believes to be an excellent achievement.
When you start to lock yourself into one role, it’s hard to leave this role. Mostly you won’t see the feedback, you need to exit this role and you remain in the isolated dissonance.
Only when you start to be truly transparent to yourself from the heart-soul level, you are willing to surrender your role. Pausing can initiate this process with great ease. But when you are not able to pause in life, you can’t receive the feedback. Also, you are not open listening to feedback from your heart-soul level. You may listen to external feedback and advice, but not to your inner build-in guidance.
Most people’s soul purpose is a lot ‘different’ than they would love to believe.
First, it’s never about changing anything in the outside. It’s about changing your inner world and negative belief systems. This is the biggest service for the whole you can do. And all the magic will reveal itself afterward. This is a magical natural process.
Like nature, we humans are meant to be in a similar rhythm of Winter, Spring, Summer, and Fall. If we force ourselves to be bigger in our ego wants, we can never fully blossom our true radiance. This radiance is not charisma because charisma is a form of ego energy.
To be truly radiant is selfless and full of love and light.
When you open yourself up for feedback, the magical processes start. You clearly see whether your actions are guiding you towards your inner core or not. You start to feel from the core of your physical body the reactions of your actions.
There is no need to wait until you are 70 or 80 years old to learn how to process your dissonances. You deserve to do it right now. And should you be 70 or 80 years old right now, it’s never too late to start this process, because inevitably we will be forced from the divine to look deeply at our dissonances.
This divine force is not negative, it is a process that occurs everywhere in nature. We can’t deny our actions forever. At some point, they will be massively be repelled towards us. This can be ‘good’ or ‘bad’ from our human’s perspective. Everything we experience today is a seed planted in the past.
So, don’t artificially make your seed look different than it is. Just let it be. Soon enough, the optimal plant and flowers will blossom out of your essence into the physical realm.
2. Believing Your Soul Purpose Needs Strong Effort
The beliefs that tell us: “We have to work harder to be good enough” and “no pain no gain” let us spiritually stagnate more than ever before.
Everyone beliefs they have to achieve a certain goal to reach true awakening, which reveals your soul’s purpose.
In our society, we are in the illusion of the mental plane, our thoughts, and desires. As long as we can’t transcend those limitations, we only create more thoughts, confusion and self-doubt.
Your essence never needs a strong effort. It already is and just has to be discovered. Not necessarily by earning millions of dollars. Not by showing off with a six-pack and not by stating that ‘you already are truly awakened’.
Only the negative belief systems from individuals and collectively have to be transformed. To do so, you have to higher your vibration above thoughts, emotions, and negative belief systems. Clarity shines only from there into your whole being.
Pausing can be a power for reconditioning of negative belief systems into new success patterns that excites you.
So many times, we try to force ourselves to a higher ‘frequency’ that is not meant to be for us yet. We may go through hell because of this forcing into an artificial higher frequency until we discover simple approaches that are full of simplicity.
So, to truly discover and embody your Soul Purpose, you have to let go of all the social and personal conditioning. Sexual lust is one of our desires to transcend very late in our evolution. There are many layers of collective and individual conditionings in society. To be transparent with our emotions and thoughts is a process of surrender, not a process of effort.
It is letting go of everything you thought you are and being everything, you thought was impossible. Then your new status quo was your previous ‘impossible’ That’s possible because in impossible is hidden within…
Everything becomes possible for you. You begin to transcend impossible after impossible until there is nothing more left. Then you are an embodiment of your unique crystal of consciousness.
This is a truly alchemical process of nature.
When we as humans surrender to this process, we finally begin to live again.
3. Let Money and Sex Rule Your Life
Two of our collective most challenging genetic imprints are money and sex. Both can be great levelers to serve the whole when applied gently. Both can also be a great distraction in the process of discovering your soul purpose. In both money and sex, we tend to become impatient.
In money, we become impatient at not having enough money quickly, and in sex, we become impatient at not finding the perfect partner quickly enough and having the sexual encounter.
We could say we are ruled by our genetics. The genetics for more and more. The genetics for offspring and lust in external experiences. The genetics for hunger in external luxuries. The genetics for believing strength to be found in the outer world.
Many billionaires and very wealthy people are depressed, unhealthy, and full of conflicts. Surely there is also the opposite. I know quite some very wealthy people and most of them have an inner unease conflict, that they are not able to hide in my presence.
At the same time, I see a lot of people with minimal wealth, living from month to month healthy, happy, and peaceful. And they even share their last meal or clothes, if they would have to.
The danger in money is not money itself. It’s the danger of the negative loop of complexity that is built around money and your goods. I experienced this with my sports car, which is still a very small complexity when we talk about ships, luxury villas, and other time-consuming complexities like big companies.
I love to have a life full of simplicity. This gives me the time to pause and reflect all the feedback on a day to day base.
We have to understand that we are not a victim of our genetics. And we have to understand that we can’t suppress our feelings and thoughts.
We have to honestly engage them on a day to day base. Especially the sexual lust and intimacy can be an intense distraction. It makes us believe that on the outside we can find peace, freedom, and abundance.
And as soon as we finish a relationship, we begin to feel empty and notice that this peace, freedom, and abundance was not ‘ours’. This is a strong illusion and even after the dissonance stops and we leave a relationship, most times we are not honest enough to listen to the inner feedback from the heart.
Therefore, we enter a similar relationship with similar challenges over and over again. This is because we never looked at our inner demons. We tend to project problems onto others, or we suppress our emotions and hide them within. We believe that it’s dangerous to look at our demons. We do not understand that we are already ‘obsessed’ by our demons. Our demons of never-ending negative feedback loops that convince us that only with money and sex we are in a safe place.
As long as we are not willing to face our demons, we can’t discover and embody our soul’s purpose.
And because most people have a negative attitude about their demons, they attract those reflecting mirrors over and over again in their lives.
Those demons hold us back to live a life in heaven full of prosperity. A life in which money and sex are no more essential wants, but luxury needs that showcase the level of your love towards life.
We know that the media, Hollywood, and several institutions aren’t meant to be a guide to a healthy life full of abundance. At the same time, we let ourselves victimize from those in power. Neither they nor you are the culprit. It’s our genetics that is the culprit.
When we start to honestly reprogram our belief systems, we change those genetics. The measurement to see whether we truly achieved this task is the quality of your lightness.
Do you feel lighter or heavier after a transformation process?
Does it support you and others in being happy?
Does it help others to live their own life full of excitement?